the fact that im considered an adult is both terrifying and hilarious
Tag: negativity
me: gosh i have so much work to do i better get started
my brain: you cannot
me: why
my brain: you are feeling moderately upset, any attempt at productivity is futile
me: i dont see how-
my brain: cannot.
interviewer: would you say you are motivated to succeed
me: no
me: but i AM terrified of failure
i have a really bad habit of withholding food from myself until i get shit done lol i need to fix that
come with me
and you’ll see
my need of constant validation
me: *encounters something slightly difficult*
brain: you have to cry
me: why
brain: you gotta
Just a reminder that while positivity is a great tool it is not healthy to:
- repress negative thoughts/feelings
- feel guilty for having negative thoughts/feelings
- feel that you can’t express negative thoughts/feelings
Negative emotions are a part of life, and a truly balanced cognitive strategy will accept this (while working to change the balance of good to bad and teaching you coping strategies/self care/distraction etc)
“i’m in kind of a weird mental place right now” i say, as if there are times when i am not in a weird mental place
sometimes i am so overwhelmingly sad about every single thing i’ve ever been sad about and i think the sadness will kill me
i like to get inspired and then not act on it and waste away in my bed